The award ceremony took place at Sun City on Saturday (2/11). Bokamoso Peter was the only nominated police officer among a group of advocates.

Having been a victim of rape at the age of nine, Peter expressed an overwhelming mix of emotions.

‘Growing up in such traumatic circumstances was very difficult’

“I felt both happy and emotional at the same time. I am deeply honoured to receive this award because it shows the work we do as police officials are recognised, and it’s not just about my work alone.”

Peter recounts her personal trauma of being violated by someone she trusted. “In many cultures, when a trusted individual betrays you, the family remains silent.

“My entire family knew about the rape, but my mother was pressured to stay silent due to threats to her marriage. Growing up in such traumatic circumstances was very difficult for me.

Peter has dedicated 16 years to law enforcement and has spent the last six years working in the Family Violence, Child Protection, and Sexual Offenses Unit (FCS). Photo: Heidre Malgas

“Being a victim of rape, especially domestic rape, is incredibly traumatic and emotional. It’s not something I would wish on my worst enemy,” she added.

Becoming a police officer was a straightforward decision for Peter. She wanted to help victims of abuse, particularly in communities where such violence has become alarmingly common.

Many people are violated daily and are too afraid to speak out.

Peter has dedicated 16 years to law enforcement and has spent the last six years working in the Family Violence, Child Protection, and Sexual Offenses Unit (FCS). Prior to this, she served 10 years in the Crime Intelligence Sexual Offenses department.

“Being a victim of rape is not a choice. You don’t choose to be victimised, so you should not feel ashamed of your experience.

‘A support system is vital’

“Hold your head high, seek strength, and know it’s not easy. Ask God for the strength to move forward and talk about it, because it is therapeutic.”

She said a support system is vital. “My husband is mine. He understands when I work late and manages the kids. 

“He understands when I need to trace a suspect outside of town. My superiors are also a great support system. They ensure that I consult with psychologists via the police to cope, as dealing with rape cases can be challenging.

The award ceremony took place at Sun City on Saturday (2/11). Bokamoso Peter was the only nominated police officer among a group of advocates. Photo supplied

“I want our country to be free from the violence of GBV. I want the next generation to know something different from GBV, and I’m glad to be part of that change.”

Peter and her colleagues regularly host GBV awareness days, reaching out to victims and offering support. They conduct door-to-door visits in communities to help those in need.

“My top advice to parents is to always listen to their children. When children report something happened to them, it’s usually true.

“The earlier a child receives support and therapy, the better the healing journey.”

She said people have the responsibility to report all gender-based violence cases they may be aware of.

OFM News/ Heidrè Malgas mvh